Friends, Frenemies and Double Agents!?

In today's world if you asked a woman how many real friends does she have she'll probably pause in really have to think about it. Nowadays you really can't tell your friends from your enemies. Its crazy how you can meet someone through work school or even at a gym in that person would probably be a better friend to you then one you've known sum what your entire life. If you have any enemies I'm betting their former friends of yours. I can almost guarantee it. Remember the good ol days where loyalty played a big role in friendship, you could count on your friend to be there through thick and thin, You had her back and she had yours. If you ever had a problem, you could vent to her no matter what it was. Well now a days some of these so called "bitches" excuse me friends" aren't who tha portray themselves to be. I'll classify the breakdown on what is who. You have your "True Friends" if your lucky you've had at least 2 maybe even 3 of these in your lifetime ,rarely at the same time in I really doubt some have surpass this amount. The one you occasionally argue and make up with cause you know you couldn't live a single day without that crazy bitch. She don't silently hate on you or judge with that eagle eye she knows your flaws and always keep it real no matter what, she gives you space in tells you when your wrong in being stupid, or childish doesn't blab your business to a soul, will hold your hair while your leaned over in a toilet cause yo dumbass done drank to much or is right there with you on stake out at yo dudes house. Over the course of your friendship you can rely on her for just about anything her shoulder is always there to cry on she is your best friend your sister your right hand man.
Then you have your frienemy the one you keep second guessing. Tell her something in it gets out but she swear up in down she aint said a peep. The one who always tell you what to do when she's doing the exact opposite. Quick to give advise but want take it. Always got a negative comment for everything you do and or anyone else for that matter. Gossip Gossip Gossip she lives for it so much to the point where she often repeats a story cause she forgot she already told you. The bitch that will watch and let you look like a fool in a club rather then pull you to the side in say "Aye bitch yo ass is out you look stupid chill the fuck out" then help you pull it together in right by yo side until the club ends but naw that's not her. This bitch wants you to look burnt so she'll feel superior to you in not equal or more appealing to the nigga who probably bought you a drink in didn't offer her one. She's the friend you love yet you know you can't really trust her, cause she's secretly waiting and watching your every move, so she can run back in tell everyone all yo business to feel apart of some thing. The only reason ya'll still kick it to this day is because you genuinely do care about her after all she is your friend rite.!? Which brings me too a new discovery! A Double Agent..I had to laugh when one of my true friends explain this to me last night. This is when you have a friend who plays the role of a true friend but is indeed a frienemy. You really wouldn't be able to tell the difference until your friendship has ended .She jumps ships faster then a pirate when ya'll not cool no more she just so happens to hang with someone you guys no longer associated with but all of sudden their best friends over night. She'll be there for you listen to all your problems alright only to store retain and use against you after your no longer friends. These double agent bitches are the worst of em all simply because you don't know what their motives are. With a frenemy you know what your getting you know the limits of what to say around them. So my advice to you all is. Be weary of the company you keep. Someday conflict could arrive and you'll find yourself with a person who knows all your secrets and will use them against. I'm so happy I been blessed with my mom and sisters who are my best friends and I trust! My dad always use to say ya'll don't need friends ya'll got each other. And I do agree with him however I've also been blessed with a few true friends who are my sisters from another mother..if your reading this bitches I love u..ya'll know who ya'll are! So stay true to your real friends it reflects upon your character. Rid your circle of fake bitches. Watch how she treats her other friends take heed to her character. If she's quick to talk about another friend what makes you think she wouldn't do the same to you. If you have doubts about a friends loyalty don't tell her all your business. I use to have these double agent bitches in my circle until their covers were blown and they were unmasked revealing the inner ugly side of them as a person. Character,Actions and Loyalty will say a lot about someone you need to pay attention to just that. And avoid the drama of possibly having all your business thrown back to your face. Friends! How many of us have them? Never can be to sure..lol